Here’s to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise them.
Happy International Women’s Day! In honor of the day, I’ve taken a page out of Chimamanda Adichie’s book and have come up with three reasons we should all be feminists. Spoiler alert, hating men isn’t one of the reasons.
Equality isn’t oppression
We’ve all heard a million feminist slogans. Women’s rights are human rights. Feminism is the radical notion that women are people. Girls just wanna have fundamental human rights. There are a plethora of signs with these phrases at every women’s march and gender equality rally. We get so used to seeing them that we forget their significance. One common argument against feminism is that it’s about superiority rather than equality. All feminists are oppressive man-haters who shouldn’t be trusted. The same argument is used when looking at racial and socioeconomic equality. There’s a belief that oppression rather than equality is the goal of equal rights movements. Patti McNeil’s article critiques this best by pointing out that “equality is about bringing UP the people who have been oppressed … not about bringing DOWN those who are privileged.” Feminism is about women being equal, not better. It’s about fighting for women’s most basic rights. Feminists don’t want to overthrow men, they just want to level the playing field.
Feminism benefits everyone
Feminism recognizes that sexism disadvantages everyone. The world sets up unrealistic expectations for both men and women and shames them when these expectations aren’t met. Men who aren’t considered masculine enough are ridiculed. Women are underestimated and berated for not being feminine enough.These narrow views limit both men and women. Feminism recognizes the harm that these limitations can cause. It attempts to dismantle the systems which perpetuate these stereotypes and move towards “social, political, and economic equality of the sexes.”
The pay gap hurts everyone
Women are more educated than men yet continue to be paid less. For some reason, paying women what they’re worth is a foreign concept. Women have to work twice as hard to get half of the recognition. They are also more likely to live below the poverty line. Once you introduce issues of race and class, the problems multiply. By disadvantaging women, society as a whole suffers. Supporting equal pay and opportunities is vital to social and economic growth for everyone.
Of course, there are a million other reasons to be a feminist. We’ve made noticeable progress towards equality but there is still a lot of work to be done. I don’t understand why feminism is considered controversial.Men and women may have fundamental differences but they deserve the same rights and opportunities. Feminism helps bring to light challenges so that we can work on them. Its significance shouldn’t be diminished and being called a feminist shouldn’t be an insult. If you believe in equality, empowerment, and respect, you’re a feminist (congratulations!).
I love this! Happy international womens day! We women are amazing, I really love this day and celebrating that!
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I would say that feminism is controversial because the men feel like they’re being attacked and questioned. Most people also do not understand the concept of feminism. This is where it all comes down to. We do have a long way to go, but we’ve made good progress as well.
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Can’t argue with any of the themes here. Equality has to be a good thing no matter which groups you’re talking about!
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Yes. That is inequality. Being paid less. And I hate it. By the way, this was a great post. Happy Women’s Day.
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You know… as a straight white male I am so happy that things are starting to shift and focus on the appreciation of other genders, races, and creeds. I think women are amazing and articles like this only help to empower them more. Fantastic job 🙂
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Happy Women’s Day to you! Great post!
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I feel that women don’t need a rose on women’s day but we need equal pay and equal rights. The day we get these things, I believe we will not require a women’s day to celebrate.
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I think i agree with a few things said in here but not all though. But the world needs to see and think differently to women and appreciate them more than they are right now.
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It’s sad that people look at feminism as something that is wrong! More people need to join hands and fight for the equal rights for all.
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I promise to my husband and the world that if we have a daughter she will be one of the most confident people on the face of the planet!
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I definitely agree that women are super strong and can do anything. We need to pull each other up together as well.
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happy International women’s day to us ladies! cheers 🙂
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Yes to the point feminism benefits everyone. I will add is there are many feminist men out there but of course ignorant men dont know that!
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A woman can do anything we all have well known about that.
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